Let's Talk About Consent

Conversations surrounding consent are vital to understanding how to treat others with respect and creating stronger and destigmatized discussions about sexual assault.

What is consent?

Consent is considered to be an agreement between two or more parties to participate in sexual activity or behavior. It should be a verbal and affirmative conformation of willingness to participate. If consent is given under physical or emotional pressure, it is not considered to be consent. Consent cannot be given by someone who is under the influence, underage, or unconscious.

What does consent look like?

Consent should always be a spoken confirmation that you are willing to participate in the activity or behavior taking place. Consent should never be assumed or expected. This could look like:

”Yes, I would like to do this.”

”No, I’m not comfortable with this.”

“Let’s do that” or “Let’s not.”

There are many ways to express consent, as long as it is explicit.

How do you ask for consent?

Just like giving consent to an action or behavior, asking for consent must be explicitly stated. This could look like:

”Are you comfortable with this?”

”Is this okay?”

”Can we do this?”

”Do you want me to…?”

It's okay to change your mind!

Consent can be withdrawn at any time. Consenting to one activity does not mean consenting to another, and it’s okay to change your mind at any point. If you have already consented to an activity but no longer feel comfortable participating, express your unease!

Source: RAINN